The Counter Culture Mom Show with Tina Griffin

“One lifetime is nowhere near enough time to get to know another human being,” says Robert Paul, the Vice President of the Focus on the Family Marriage Institute. When it comes to marriage, what keeps the passion and romance burning hotter than ever is a lifelong inquisitive and curious pursuit of your spouse. Ignore what secular culture and even misguided churches may be telling you about the “fairytale” of marriage. Your spouse is your life journey partner, in good times and in bad. Support and encourage each other. Avoid giving unsolicited or unkind advice. Don’t be bossy, but be a cheerleader. Keep Jesus at the center of your marriage, and if you need help, don’t hesitate to reach for it. Getting help is not a sign of weakness; it’s a sign of courage, says Robert.

 

 
TAKEAWAYS

 
Nothing is more foundational to a marriage than having the relationship centered on Christ

 
Choosing a spouse is not about stepping into a fairytale - it’s about journeying through the trials of life together

 
Happiness can’t be the measurement of whether your marriage is going well, because it can change daily, depending on your emotions

 
Connect with the Lord in every difficult situation together as a couple and ask for His guidance and direction

 

 
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There are many misconceptions about the dynamics of sex in marriage, but often, the struggles of rejection get swept under the rug. Sheri Mueller is a licensed clinical professional counselor and the author of I Want Him to Want Me: How to Respond When Your Husband Doesn’t Want Sex. Women are conditioned to believe that men will always initiate and aggressively pursue sex. But what if they don’t? What if the sting of rejection is taking its toll on a woman and driving a marriage into the ground? Sheri discusses this very real and often isolating problem that is rarely addressed in support groups, counseling sessions, or at church. Issues like male body image problems, porn addiction, or even medication side effects that may be a factor in men not interested in sex. Sexless marriages can only be fixed by gently but directly addressing the root cause.
TAKEAWAYS
Song of Solomon in the Bible demonstrates the reality that a woman can pursue intimacy just as vigorously as a man
Testosterone begins diminishing in men as early as 35 years old
On average, male rejection of sex affects as many as one in three marriages
Men are experiencing symptoms of erectile dysfunction at younger ages than ever, because of porn
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When you fight with your spouse, do you know what you’re really fighting about? Dig deep and ask yourself what the real root problem is. Be ruthless in your evaluation of yourself. Gary Thomas, a bestselling author and speaker, advises honesty, reflection, and a direct approach to overcoming conflict. He dishes out critical advice on how to heal and harmonize in the wake of devastating betrayal within marriage, highlighting a need for true repentance on the part of the offender. He also doesn’t shy away from talking about the importance of healthy and edifying sex in marriage. How does it change as we age? How do expectations or methods of connecting shift? Gary also offers insight on how to coordinate and communicate about finances to lessen financial problems that could arise in marriage.
TAKEAWAYS
As you age, intimacy will look different, but it is just as meaningful
True repentance is marked by actions, not feelings
It’s okay to change your preferences and intimacy triggers over time
Marriage involves two people, not just one - we should serve and love each other as Christ loves His church
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How do you keep your marriage strong when the trials of life threaten to pull you apart? Gary Thomas may have the answers you’ve been looking for! He is the author of 23 books that have sold over 3 million copies. Being married for over 40 years, Gary brings tremendous insight into the importance of cultivating an intimate and deeply Christ-centered relationship from the moment marriage vows are exchanged and beyond. He challenges couples to cherish each other and to give grace to one another. Gary emphasizes, “Get married for the better, but make your vows for the worst.” Manage your expectations. Marriage will not be easy, but helping each other through the storms of life will be the biggest blessing you’ve ever experienced.
TAKEAWAYS
Marriage can produce little moments of reconnection in the midst of disappointment
During trials and tribulations, affirming each other is key and checking in with your spouse every week to see how they are feeling is critical
New parents must reprioritize their lives as they adjust to taking care of their infant
Setting boundaries with your children is a good and healthy marriage trait
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In the wake of the deadly Hamas attacks against Israel, Dr. Jeffrey Johnson has been working overtime to deliver meals and aid to Israelis who were affected by the catastrophic ambush. Jeffrey is the founder of Israel Today Ministries and the author of Fifty Days With God (A Jubilee). He shares his heart for the Israeli people and the God-divine connections with leaders like the U.S. Ambassador to Israel, Mike Huckabee. Jeffrey discusses the Jewish roots of Christianity, the importance of Romans 1:16, and the distorted conversations that have emerged as the term “Zionism” has inaccurately become a negative political term. He also outlines the true meaning of Zionism, replacement theology, and the complex theological roots of these belief systems. “The reason the world hates Israel is because they hate the God of Israel,” Jeffrey says.
TAKEAWAYS
Zionism is what the Scripture says about the promises God made to Israel regarding their homeland
The Abrahamic Covenant tells us that those who love and protect the Israeli people will be blessed and those who don’t will be cursed
Israel Today Ministries has delivered thousands of meals to children who were affected by Hamas-inflicted violence
Replacement theology has caused havoc among Christians, and in conjunction, Zionism has become a modern, weaponized political term
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