In this episode Janice Lagata & Melanie, tackle chapters 25 through 27 of Redeeming Love and reflect on the broader cultural implications of the story with guest host Marlaina . The trio discusses the book's portrayal of gender roles, purity culture, and the dehumanizing nature of evangelical influences. They explore the convoluted relationships, historical inaccuracies, and the challenges of dealing with a narrative that intertwines romance with indoctrination.
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309. FOREHEAD OF A WHORE with Cheyanne
In this episode of Bad Words, hosts Janice (janicelagata.com) and Melanie (@climbholamel), along with guest Cheyenne, dive deep into Francine Rivers' 'Redeeming Love'. They unpack the toxic relationships, patriarchal themes, and misinterpretations of biblical stories that permeate the novel. Through thoughtful critique and personal insights, they discuss how the novel mishandles issues of trauma, redemption, and agency, paying special attention to the misrepresentation of biblical characters like Gomer and Mary Magdalene. This episode provides a critical lens on Christian romance novels and their impact on readers.
00:00 Introduction: Contrasting Lives
00:19 Angel's New Life on the Farm
00:48 Angel's Confession and Michael's Response
01:13 Angel's Escape and Return
01:30 Welcome to Bad Words
02:08 Meet the Hosts and Guest
02:58 Packing and Moving Stories
07:18 Diving into Redeeming Love
09:09 Chapters 22-24: Angel's Second Departure
10:44 Analyzing Michael's Behavior
16:26 Theological Reflections on Hosea
50:49 Angel's Forced Marriage and Lost Choices
52:08 The House of Magdalene Controversy
54:21 Michael's Questionable Actions and Angel's Insecurities
57:09 Miriam's Secret and Angel's Struggles
01:02:30 Angel's Redemption and Francine's Narrative
01:18:36 Christian Romance and Its Audience
01:31:55 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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308. FATHERS, DAUGHTERS AND THE WORKS with Leslie
Join Janice (@godhasnotiven), Melanie (@climbholamel) and Leslie (@leslie_delman) as they dive into chapters 19 -21 of ‘Redeeming Love’. This episode captures the ongoing drama of Michael and Angel's tumultuous relationship, the arrival of the sickeningly wholesome Altman family, and the deep-rooted issues stemming from Angel's dark past. The hosts hilariously scrutinize the depiction of Angel, Michael's misguided saintliness, and Francine's problematic portrayal of female sexuality. They also discuss personal stories about evolving perspectives on relationships, body autonomy, and raising kids in today's world. Tune in for a blend of humor, critique, and genuine moments of reflection.
00:00 Introduction: Contrasting Lives
00:12 Recap of Previous Events
00:17 Michael and Angel's Journey
00:42 Angel's Revelation and Miriam's Reaction
00:51 Angel's Internal Struggles
01:30 Welcome to Bad Words
01:36 Hosts' Banter and Bird Talk
03:18 Discussion on Flamingos
04:35 Reflecting on 'Redeeming Love'
05:22 Leslie's Introduction and Bird Metaphor
06:34 Leslie's Experience with 'Redeeming Love'
15:55 Angel's Emotional Journey
16:57 Summary of Chapters 19-21
26:48 Critique of 'Redeeming Love'
33:58 God's Intervention and Story Pacing
34:26 Character Dynamics and Plot Twists
34:55 Family Drama and Tragic Backstories
36:08 Exploring Themes of Guilt and Redemption
40:06 Disturbing Revelations and Author Critique
49:42 Purity Culture and Its Impact on Women
01:02:56 Parenting and Teaching Body Autonomy
01:14:52 Balancing Safety and Freedom in Parenting
01:15:51 Healing Trauma and Raising Kids
01:16:46 Personal Growth and Marriage
01:18:15 Influence of Parents and Boundaries
01:19:04 Acceptance and Family Dynamics
01:21:13 Evangelicalism and Personal Beliefs
01:34:45 Book Recommendations and Final Thoughts
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307. DECENT TO THE SLAVES with Karla
Join hosts Janice (@godhasnotgiven) and Melanie (@climbholamel), with guest Karla (@holasoykarla), as they dive deep into chapters 16 to 18 of 'Redeeming Love' by Francine Rivers. They unmask the underlying themes about misogyny, autonomy, and the persistent stigmatization of women, while also discussing how the characters endure chaotic and undeserved challenges. The episode also covers the cultural and personal implications that stem from reading such works, tackling topics like purity culture, power dynamics, and the struggle for self-redemption amidst judgmental environments. The conversation is unfiltered, emotional, and sprinkled with humor. Tune in for an in-depth critique and a fresh perspective on this controversial classic.
00:00 Introduction: Contrasting Lives
00:18 Angel's Desperate Escape
01:01 Michael's Chaotic Rescue
01:30 Meet the Hosts: Bad Birds of Paradise
04:13 Karla's Journey with Redeeming Love
13:50 Michael and Angel's New Companions
14:53 Discussing the Book's Themes and Characters
38:23 The Burden of Purity Culture
41:53 Society's Double Standards
45:38 Power Dynamics and Evangelicalism
48:12 The Struggle for Female Autonomy
57:56 The Insidious Nature of Patriarchy
01:11:15 Questioning Evangelical Beliefs
01:18:28 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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306. GAY FOR MICHAEL with Lo
In this episode of Bad Words, Janice (@godhasnotgiven) Melanie (@climbholamel), and guest host Lo (@lmoshwhipp) dive deep into chapters 13-15 of Francine Rivers' 'Redeeming Love.' The hosts discuss the troubling portrayals of relationships, victim-blaming, and the problematic theology underlying the narrative. They analyze the characters' actions, particularly the disturbing dynamics between Angel and Michael, as well as Paul’s reprehensible behavior. The conversation also touches on how the book reflects evangelical views on love and trauma, highlighting the harmful messages and poor writing that make 'Redeeming Love' a godawful read.
00:00 Introduction and Recap
01:28 Hosts Introduction
03:35 Discussion on 'Redeeming Love'
07:20 Analyzing Characters and Themes
09:29 Paul's Return and Reactions
11:23 Angel's Trauma and Responses
41:54 Curiosity About the Author's Intentions
43:22 Analyzing Angel's Desire for Freedom
44:03 Trauma Responses and Evangelical Love
52:31 Paul's Assault and Its Implications
01:04:29 Angel's Return to Paradise
01:15:14 The Works: A Romance Novel Critique
01:15:23 Goodreads Reviews and Censorship
01:16:59 The Big Rescue: A Violent Escape
01:19:14 Michael's Heroic Violence
01:24:26 Angel's Trauma and Fear
01:26:12 Paul's Betrayal and Michael's Assumptions
01:28:12 Michael's Misguided Love
01:34:32 Evangelical Love Bombing
01:39:18 Francine Rivers' Writing and Critique
01:51:41 Final Thoughts and Reflections
An exvangelical podcast giving toxic theology the read it deserves by taking another look at some of the bad books given major influence in evangelical christianity.
Hosted by Janice Lagata and Melanie Kleimola