Unbothered

He had potential. You had patience. And now you're realizing love can't turn someone into who they're not. Kate Speights joins me to talk about why you simply cannot build a man. We get into staying too long, having the same conversation 500 times, and realizing you can't love someone into being the one. If you feel like you have to raise him, it's time to get a new one.

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Lost your spark and not sure how to get it back? I have answers. I’ve lost mine more times than I can count over the last few years, which means I’ve also gotten pretty good at getting it back fast. In this episode I get into what actually kills your spark and what genuinely brings it back. Not the Pinterest advice, the real stuff that actually works when you feel like a dim version of yourself.

Fair warning: I took a shot of tequila before recording because talking to a camera alone for an hour still feels slightly insane to me, and apparently, I’m a lightweight now. So this is a very honest, slightly chaotic, unfiltered solo Chloe episode.

But by the end of it, you’ll have a game plan and ideally be ready to wake up tomorrow and say the 3 magic words. We're so back.

Your 20s are chaotic and messy, but that’s the point. Trinity Blair joins me for a big sister/little sister moment that honestly healed something in both of us. She asks what it’s actually like to be 29, and I share what 21-year-old me misunderstood about love, ambition, and growing up.

If you’ve felt behind, too intense, or mildly convinced everyone else has it figured out...they don’t. And this one’s for you.

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We’re talking about dating a man with potential instead of proof, living with a friend who might secretly want your life, the boyfriend who’s “private” but somehow still posts everything but you, when generosity starts sounding like leverage, why chaos feels hotter than calm, and what to do when the people closest to you slowly drain your peace.

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You’re not unlucky in love. You’re just repeating a loop. Best selling author Amy Chan explains why your “type” might be your trauma  and how to recalibrate your picker for good. We get into breadcrumb addiction, instant chemistry vs. anxiety, the dating funnel, and why stability shouldn’t feel boring.Preorder Unsingle check out Breakup Bootcamp ⁠here⁠!Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠
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